We’ve all been set up on blind dates before. If not then you don’t have any friends who care if you ever find true love and you also don’t date online.
Whether you’re meeting a girl from eHarmony or a friend of a friend, the first impression is critical. Study these:
1) First of all, meet in a public place rather than going to her door or her coming to yours, it’s safer this way and if you are not attracted to her then you can just tell her she’s mistaken you for somebody else and go home.
2) Bring something to keep you occupied should you arrive first (a book, cell phone game, roller skates, etc.) you don’t want to stand there awkwardly, repeatedly looking at your phone in ringxiety.
3) Wear sunglasses, this way you can stare people in the face who might be your date without them sensing your gaze. She may look different in real life than in her profile picture, it's unrealistic to count on recognizing her at a glance. Once you’ve made a positive ID you can act cool and aloof.
4) Shake hands, no hugs for first meets.
5) Before you go anywhere, get out your wallet and count your money. Bring about $400 in cash whether you plan on spending it or not. Cash money always impresses.
Warning: If you are taking out a girl you met online do not disclose any personal information, 1 out of 4 online dates leads to stalking and murder. Don’t be a statistic, use a fake name until you feel comfortable.
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This is a timely post, see things like this literally happen everyday, right down the street infact: http://www.connectionnewspapers.com/article.asp?article=325016&paper=60&cat=104
ReplyDeleteAs i agree safety is the key to staying accident free, I do have some further concerns:
A.) The sun does in fact set on the cool. Therefore I move that we amend point #3 to include an indoor caveat. Just don't.
B.) While cash american does impress, you know what impresses more? A Centurion Card. Don't know what that is? Well, that's a bigger issue we can deal with later. But know this: when I see that black little card, I know. Oh, I know.
C.) oh, and about point #4 DON'T YOU READ THE FREAKING PAPER?! THERE IS SWINE FLU. OMGWTFBBQ... THE TIME TO PANIC IS NOW. DO NOT SHAKE HANDS WITH STRANGERS. I am certain to tote around a belt clip for my gallon of Purell; I suggest you do the same.
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