First Meats

Everybody, when you first meet somebody I don’t find it wise to immediately scheme to “get digits”. 

OMFG, this girl is so beautiful, I may never see her again, this could be my chance! This is do or die, time to separate the men from the boys! The world is yours.

You immediately want to thrust yourself into a date situation.  Doing so will only set strange expectations and result in an awkward, almost scripted get-to-know-you session. Don’t force anything. Be loosey goosey.  Maybe you’ll never see her again--how mysterious and sexy. This can only work in your favor. Maybe you do see her again because getting her number was the natural thing to do. Way to go tiger.